Positioning
You can experiment with different positions
to find what works best for you. The ones that come to mind that have worked well for my
partner and I are as follows:
Lying flat – in this
instance you can have your partner lie on the bed on her back with her knees slightly bent
and spread as wide apart as is comfortable for her. You can then lie between her legs and
slide your arms under each of her legs (kind of like a hug) and that will position your
head appropriately.
Edge – in this instance you
can have your partner slide down the edge of the bed and lean back, perhaps propped up on
pillows in a semi-sitting position. You would then kneel on the floor in front of her and
start working your magic on her.
69 – in this instance you
and your partner can either lie facing one another or have the man on top or the woman on
top. The drawback to this position is that it’s easy enough to forget what
you’re supposed to be doing if your partner is also working on you. The one I like
best is when I get to be on top and can grind my pussy into my partner’s face.
However please note that in this position you will get quite wet!
Note to the ladies:
It
is worth your while to do your Kegels. This exercise will help you to
increase the strength of your pubococcygeus (PC) muscles that form
the pelvic floor between the legs. The toning of these muscles which
contract during orgasm, helps a lot of women to climax more easily.
To do the exercise simply tighten up your muscles as if you were going to
stop the flow of urine. Hold in that position for about 3 seconds, then
relax for 3 seconds and repeat. You can gradually build up the number of
repetitions you do. |
