Dildos:
A good dildo will provide you with
hours of entertainment for when you’re going solo or even when you’ve
got a partner to play with. It’s well worth the money to spend and get a
good one that’s going to last for a long time. You want to make sure
that the surface is easily cleaned. Some of the latex ones had pores in
them which made them very difficult to keep clean. There’s some really
cool gel dildos on the market these days. Check out your local love shop
and see what they have to offer. Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
External Stimulation
– using the dildo on the outside of your body is probably the easiest way
to do things to start off with. Here are a couple of ideas to get you
started, first of all apply some lube to the dildo and lay it flat on a hard
chair. Then if you position yourself above it and sit down so that the dildo
runs the full length from the crack of your ass all the way up to your clit
and slide yourself back and forth on it. This will provide all kinds of
stimulation.
Head
– You can also use the head of the dildo, it’s shaped pretty much like
the real thing, and rub it against your clitoris. By applying pressure and
moving the head over your clitoris in an up and down or circular motion you
can provide great stimulation to the clit. The more pressure you apply the
faster you will come. On the other hand just using light pressure will take
you longer to reach the climax but the result will be a more intense orgasm.
For better control, you may find it easier to use two hands to grip the
dildo.
Internal Stimulation
– The dildo also does a wonderful job when inserted into the vagina as
well. Such a multipurpose kind of toy. <smile> One of the things you
need to consider is the size of your dildo, it doesn’t have to be a huge
monster to be effective. Simply find one that is wide enough to be snug
inside your vagina and longer than what you need to insert as you have to
have something to hold onto. Find a comfortable position to be in while you
play. Insert the dildo into your vagina and then begin moving it in an in
and out fashion. Depth of the thrusts is entirely dependent on how you feel,
and the sensation will be different at different depths. Once you’ve
established a bit of a rhythm start rubbing or stroking your clitoris in
time with the strokes. If you want something a little different try
positioning the dildo so that when it moves in and out it will pull a bit
and stimulate the clitoris that way.
Double Up
– Dildos come in many shapes and flavors so you can get whatever you’d
like. You might want to consider purchasing a dual dildo. This will enable
you to insert one end into your vagina and the other end into your anus.
This way you have double the thrusting pleasure while you stimulate your
clit. You can also combine the use of a vibrator in one spot and a dildo in
the other. If you were feeling adventurous you could place a vibrating butt
plug in your anus and a vibrator in your vagina and stimulate your clit with
your fingers. The combinations are only limited by your imagination.
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